Sunday, May 23, 2010
Sometimes, as mothers, we take on the weight of the world to make sure our family is happy, healthy, and fully nurtured. In the midst of all the chaos, we often forget to thank the one person who always has our back in good times, and in bad, in sickness, and in health: our partners, husbands, and significant others.
I don’t always outwardly show my respect and appreciation for all the wonderful things my husband does, but truth told: I would not make it through most weekends if I did not have him to lean on. During the week, I spend much one-on-one time with my daughter. I chauffer her from one activity to another, provide a gentle nudge to complete homework, and help put together schedules for projects that would otherwise seem overwhelming and never be completed. The job is not easy, is obviously quite exhausting, and pays less than nothing.
My husband is my hero, because he truly understands how difficult parenting is. When he gets in the car after a long day at work, sees my “deer in the headlights expression”, he instantly knows it’s time to rescue me. My husband performs his role as savior with conviction, grace, and a whole lot of humor.
I know my husband works hard, and coming home to a house in chaos is not desired, inviting, or even fair. But my husband never a chip on his shoulder, and never, ever lets me down. He’s the one who buys me flowers to brighten my mood. He’ll make me breakfast in bed to nurture me. And he takes on extra household chores to provide me the opportunity to relax and rejuvenate.
I love my husband. In a blog about parenting, and finding patience, I want my husband to know that without his commitment, and desire to love and protect, my mission would be much, much more difficult. Thank you, Mr. Bear, for all you do to make our house a warm and loving home. I cherish you, and I respect you.
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~Lindsay





